Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Crushing The Love!!

'Crush'. The word says it all. The numerous meanings which this scintillating word has are as follows:

Crush (Krush) --- to gnash (teeth), crash, break.
                         --- to press between two opposite forces so as to break or injure.
                         --- to grind into small particles or powder.
                         --- to subdue or supress by force.
                         --- to oppress harshly.

English, being a funny language, has always been very interesting. The dual meaning words have always fascinated me. Here comes 'The Baap Of All' meanings.

Crush (Kruh-sh) --- An Infatuation

This meaning of the word is quite a confusing one. How the hell have the lexicographers created such a great difference in meanings of the same word?
A man is broken to pieces or crushed when he has lost his love. But the meaning gives the sign of a new love.
What a clash (And I just love clashes like this.)!!

What I have seen and observed is that a crush is rather a 'love crusher'. Crush being an infatuation can occur anytime and anywhere. But I can say this very surely that love happens only once in life. I deeply regret the fact that whenever I loved someone or just wanted to show my affection, I could not say or do so.

I was (am actually) really confused about the word and the thought that it gave. Whenever I interacted with someone beautiful or someone who can match up with my frequency of thoughts, the first thought that came to me was 'You won't fall in love with her. Its just a crush.' While the battle always ran through at the back and kept on hammering the nails (the war between crush and love).

I wonder how many crushes I had in my short life. From the very hot chemistry teacher (still miss her) of class 10, sexy seniors, jaunty juniors and some classy classmates to all those whom I have keenly observed and found qualities that fulfill my conditions of a perfect love, there is none whom I could say or in anyway express the 3 magical words. That's love been crushed (Getting my point?)

I am still unaware of the fact that what is existent? Is it the Crush or is it the Love? Crushes usually occur around 3-4 times a day (This is purely my rate). But the love feeling is still to come (I won't follow Paulo's theory of soul mates for sure in which you are able to see some sort of light at the left shoulder of the person you love).

After all these happenings and experiences (in my very small life), I can obviously say that Love is an altogether different feeling from what crush is. A crush might end up in a love story but this usually don't occur.
There is nothing like 'love at first sight'. Its rather 'Crush at first sight' and then it might get converted to love.

Have lots of crushes people and don't ask those silly questions (like me) to yourself. It's time to spread affection and love. If someone kisses you on right cheek then put forward your left cheek or you can also reply with the same gesture of love. Love is in the air. Just don't keep crushing your love..



Rajat Jain said...

Really liked it. Pretty innovative thought :)
But your crush rate is extremely high :P

Nipun said...

Thats d biggest problm i m going through....:(

ankita said...

nice 1....
bettaa,, i know teri crush rate to even higher hogi,, but publicly bataa nai rha!! ;)

Nipun said...

What more can u expect?
3-4 to thek hi h..
Waise I have broken records.
May be 30-40..

pushplata said...

its too nice

Nipun said...

too nice kya hota h??
itna nice nahi hona chahie tha?
neways ur feelings r conveyed..
Thanx dear..

keshav said...

kuch hindi main bhi likh diya kar mere bhai.

Anonymous said...


neha said...

nice yar...
n ya its also true k ye crush rate sahi mai kam hai tere liye..maine to sahi mai or bhi jyada expect ki thi... :P
bt fir bhi yar really its vry nice... :)

Nipun said...

:) :) :)

Thnx yaar.
U can always expect more from me..
After all its me..:)

manjari said...

bro. this one was also awesome and this would help me in future or may be now to understand the difference bitween these two

prateek kapoor said...

:-) hats down 4 u...itne kam crush wala insaan...chi chi..
i dnt knw how u penpicture all ur thoughts bt again "salaam" bhai for ur 1 more fucking teachng to every1(specially me)..:-) about the blog..
nicely writtn again..try taking topics wich could attract more pple around..crush is a vry big thng coz what i have noticed til date is that i have also gone through a lot of crushes(pyaar wala)bt realizd it one day whn it ws all difft frm the other ones ...i didnt gt her bt i conveyed myself to her..she's not wid me bt i still rembr thngs are not the way one looks at is entirely a difft b4 that ur "aankhen chaar karna"(a part of our lafandarbaaji) and crush forms a contrasting diff for 'u'-'me' and all those kutte kamine jo aaj b market place me jaake taadte hai(aankhen chaar karte hai)..just pass this msg to them..
"WE ROCK" :-)

:-)i knw koi sir pair ni hai upar wali line ka bt achha laga likhne me so lik dia.nd blve sab likhte waqt.."m nt drunk"..:-)bt m in a real F#@$..:-)

Nipun said...

of-course dear.
this one is for the young blooded.
Its vry nice 2 knw dat dis is going 2 help u in removing ur confusions..
Thnx sis..

Nipun said...

Thnx dude..
Itna lamba comment likha sakta h to blog hi likhna shuru krde..
U realy r a gud critic mate.
Yes "Aankhen Chaar krna" is a part dat we play out.
But crush is usually on our close frens or her frens:)
For those lafandarbaaj out dere, i can't giv any definitions of luv or Crush.
Its just the physical pleasure that matters 2 dem.
For the last 4 lines, I can(rather everyone) say that u r DRUNK dude..
Thnx again comrade...


nice blog ...

Nipun said...

thnx a lot..

Anonymous said...

looking at your blogs from past few days Nipun. Liked them alot. Kaminey was awesome and I feel your grit in toilet, I felt the same while writing that song. You had given me a good idea for a new script. Keep posting. Increase indentation and linage. Put conversations and liners. luck to you.

Nipun said...

Thanx a ton.
But writing d song??
Is it Gulzaar sir??
It can't be..
PLease tell me who are you??
You can also mail me..
Thnx again..

prateek kapoor said...

looks lyk u getting a real gud critic thez days...loads of luck frm my side too..:-)

Tangerine said...

good one!!!
30-40 crushes... that must b some kinda record :)

Nipun said...

Thnx man!!
lets c if dis sum1 ain't fooling around ..
Records r meant to be broken.

Sorcerer said...

life makes us all crash dummies at one point or the other..hmm

Nipun said...

Agree dude!!