Women not 'Woo-Men' - 1

It's been long since I wrote something. But the writer inside can't resist much after all what is going on in the nation.
Listening to various thoughts from the so called 'highly literate' bunch of our 'Pseudo' society,  even I could feel the pain what a woman has to undergo throughout her life.

Due to the greatly created fuss about the BBC documentary called India's Daughter, I had nowhere to go in the holidays but to watch the same (even though I had a clear idea of the whole incident). With news channels and various politicians and social activists showing their grief, concern and their broad and scientific outlook (so called) towards the condition of women in the country, I have tried to analyse the situation.

Let's see, how it goes..

The documentary shows the interview of Mukesh Singh (convict), M L Sharma (Defence lawyer),  A P Singh (Defence lawyer),  Pramod Gupta (ADP, Delhi Police),  Victims Mother and Father, other activists and related persons. I will be putting up the view points one by one in different posts and will be highlighting the interviewed persons.

First one goes for Mr. M L Sharma.

M L Sharma : The girl was with some unknown boy who took her on a date.  In our society girls are not allowed to go out in evenings with any unknown person. They were under the imagination of film culture and thought they can do anything.
Also women are like diamonds and should not be put on streets. If allowed on streets, dogs will hunt and you can't stop it.

VIEW : Mr. Sharma wants Purdah system to prevail in the society. A girl should not be allowed to take formal education in our country. If she acquires knowledge (by chance) then she should not utilise and practise that knowledge and keep it to herself. She is a piece of house decoration and must be kept at home because there are dogs roaming around who will eventually hunt her. He talks about unknown persons as well.
Mr.  Sharma, being a lawyer, must know that more than 80% cases of sexual assault involve people who are close relatives and family friends. We know dogs are not human beings and so please stop comparing the morality and brain of society's anti-social elements with them. They are far better. If animals were to communicate like us, then we would lose our pets very soon after such incidents. Even they won't come close to the so called human race.

While we love flaunting the Being Human T-shirt, it is only Education and upbringing which makes us Human. The human child is the slowest learner while animals the fastest. They also die early and we live long enough to make impact in this world (and the impact is clearly visible).

M L Sharma: Men and women can't be friends in our society. Also, we have the best culture with no place for women in it. Female is like a flower. If kept in gutter it is spoilt and in in temple it is worshipped.

VIEW: That was a Wow moment when you said that Sharma. Women are just there to fulfil a man's desire of sex and lust. They are not needed in the society. The rich Indian culture has no place for them and they are here for entertaining the male lot. You killed it man! What a thought coming out of the logical brain of a highly learned lawyer of our country. He deserves a noble for this statement. If not then a Bharat Ratna for sure.
Sharma is an Avatar from God. He has come right from God's own dirty hands (you know what I mean).
While we worship women in various forms, which I am sure Sharma will agree being an Indian, we disgrace her by such hineous acts and then have the audacity to utter such nonsense. The same form is meant to be raped if found on road and worshipped in temples. What kind of a pervert you are Sharma!

A women on road doesn't send any such vibes to a man which asks for sex and rape. A short dress is not asking for it as well. Walking empty handed on the road doesn't imply that those hands should be filled with alms. I read it somewhere that not wearing a helmet doesn't ask for cracking the head.

Women is not here to just 'Woo men'. It is the sick and pervert thoughts and nature of our society which make some of our fellows think like that.

A psychological study says that rapists want power and control over the other sex. They aren't sick or frustrated. But to hell with the subject. Such monsters can't be forgiven. And those fighting for their well being will understand. The work has begun from the grass root level and I believe the coming generations will know. You are the change. Bring it at the forefront and respect women as they are.

I won't pray to God for a similar consequence with them because she is again someone's daughter, sister or mother and she must not be defamed in any case. I request others also not to post thoughts like that on various petitions you are signing. I request Mr. Sharma to think before he talks such nonsense and have an introspection of himself over the entire issue. May God guide Mr. Sharma and his supporters.
Amen..


P.S. This is the first post condemning the sayings of Mr. Sharma. Next one is in the tunnel. Also as I said, this post is open to suggestions. Kindly share as much as possible so that it reaches those for whom it is meant. And my Superstar children, I know you will spread this faster then anyone else. Learn the lesson and teach others as well everyone. Let there be JYOTI..

Nipun Mittal

'Online' or 'On-Line'

Here is a small conversation piece with which I think some people might co-relate with. This is a general write-up and I don't mean to hurt anyone's personal feelings.

Netizen 1: Hey!! Wassss up??

Netizen 2: (Here he comes) Nothing much. Sitting idle. When did you come 'online'. You should have told me before coming.

Netizen 1: (If I would have told ya, I won't have found ya.) As if you always come 'online' after informing me. And yes, why should I tell you before coming 'online'.

Netizen 2: (Why can't you understand the feelings I have for you?) You are dumb and nothing else. Its been a long time since we are having these chats. I thought we were friends.

Netizen 1: (Here is the signal dude!!) Well, of course we are friends. I just thought it would be silly to inform you coz we are 'just friends'. 

Netizen 2: (Why God Why?) So you just came to say Hi or you have some official work? 

Netizen 1: (Why God Why?) Nothing important. Was hoping to find you online.

Netizen2: (I think he is a mind reader.) Really? That's so sweet of you.

 

Netizen 1: (Is this the right time to say the words?) Errrrr.. No No.. I just.. I mean.. I can't think.. I don't know.. I am gone.. I am in love.. (Shit).. I am in Love..  in love with you.. (What am I saying.. I am so gone..) I am sick.. I want to meet you. I am in love with you. Do you feel the same? (What am I saying)

Netizen 2: (Finally the words are out..OMG!!) What are you saying? You love me? 

Netizen 1: (I would have appreciated a n answer.) Yes, I do and want to meet you asap.

Netizen 2:  (I love you too but we can't meet.) Sure we will meet. Lets catch up at 4 this Sunday at the Mall.

 

Netizen 1: (Still no affirmative) Yup! That will do. But I was wondering if I can get an answer to the question I asked..

Netizen 2: (Desperado) Wait for it..Patience my dear patience.. We are meeting this Sunday.. 

Netizen 1: (I know its a yes!!) Sure darling. Oops..(way to early)

Netizen 2: (Ecstatic guy) Alryt then see you soon.. Bye. 

And then Netizen 1 waited the whole Sunday for Netizen 2  to appear in the avatar which he had in his mind, which he had seen in her profile and which he had imagined infinite times..But the online Avatar never came.

Netizen 1, mad in love with Netizen 2, committed suicide on Monday and left a note which said," I am not just a profile. I am a human being and that too real." 

Well, the whole thing behind this is a comparison between 'Being Online or On-Line.'

There is no problem in spending hours on the internet and surfing the web. This is what we do when we sit online. We use the internet and surf the web. But the problem starts when we get on-line with someone who is also available online. 

Getting online and on the internet is the need of the hour. Most of us today are available on the social networking sites and we very openly say that we are looking for a relationship (open or whatever) or in which sex are we interested in. So do we get online in order to date someone or have a serious relationship with a Netizen who may be having a fake identity?

Internet aims at making the world available at our fingertips and bring people from various parts of the world, closer. Are we really coming closer? Why this virtual world is becoming a reality? Why are their such cases in which a boy (may be) meets a girl (may be) and they fall into a serious relation just by typing some lovely sugar coated words? 

And that's not it. I know people who even before their child is born, created a profile for the unborn (Both sexes were taken into account and so there were two different profiles.)

Well.. I hope my fellow netizens (obviously real identity holders) will come with a solution to this problem very soon and will help enlighten the coming social networking generation who could even ask their parents whether they were downloaded..

Nuts..:)

 

The Year It was..

31st December, 2011

Last year the same day.. Why I still remember those days...?? (Can't even think of the correct punctuation mark)

31st December, 2010

Shoorveer Balwaan: What are we doing here? Lets go and party..

Satan: How to? Our first salaries have not yet arrived..:P

Shoorveer Balwan: Say something you two.. Mittal.. What are you upto?

Mittal:  Hehehe!! The campus is so large. There must be something going on elsewhere.. Lets just roam about on our Ladybirds..

Shoorveer Balwan:  People will find me weird dressed in these clothes. I am ready for a party which ain't happening..:P

Satan:   *SIgh*

Mittal:  Satan likes it.. Don't worry. ( *Grin* ).

Oasis (The Food Court known for parties)

Satan:   Man, now this is what we call MAAHOL..

Mittal:  (Awestruck) amazing man.. Lets search for our people.

Everyone found... But in diversified groups.. See, this is what life is all about. Meeting new people and checking our compatibility with them.. Facing new challenges every now and then..

00:00

Happy New Year 2011 and the first thought that came to me decided the whole year's panorama for me. " You are not made for this. Let it go and do what you have always wanted."

This day I met people from varied backgrounds and thoughts. But the way to enjoy and celebrate was the same. (Still trying to connect the thoughts  which divides human beings).

And the New year began with some songs and useless chats. Some friends were found and one more thing, none was lost. The friendship with others grew stronger.

Present Day (01/01/2012)

The first thought - Is the world ending this year? Crap.. I know.. But these NEWS channels.Huh..
Hugged my Mummy and Papa and finding that there is nothing better than this feeling is even more blissful.

An year mixed with all kinds of dramas and melodramas of life finally came to an end. No one learns early and from others experiences. Unless you experience things and events yourself, learning is not complete. 2011 taught me this.

Again, adversity and biodiversity, taught me to cope up with different kinds of conditions. I came to know the importance of an hour and that of 60 minutes ( The value of a second is still a mystery).

While the kids (my students)  taught me tolerance, I never knew I was learning this virtue. There are things which we realize later and at different points of time,  what the time in past has taught us.

Friends getting engaged and married this year again taught a lesson ( No puns intended ).

There are still some questions to be answered ( Wondering whom to trust).

An awesome birthday celebration.

And right now I am enjoying my hobby.. What a finish to you 2011. You were Awesome..:)

I have fastened the seat belts for the roller coaster ride once again which life has already planned for me. Lets see what life has in store..

Welcome 2012..:)

Nuts...:)

You..

 You

Looking at the moon I wonder sometimes,

Whether it is a heavenly body,

or something really divine?

Looking at the stars I wonder sometimes,

Are they really far,

or closer than the closest sight?

Looking at the flowers I wonder sometimes,

Are they really beautiful,

or everything is just about my eyes?

Looking at you, I wonder at times,

Does the world exist,

or it is just an illusion of sight?

Looking at you I came to know,

My value is cypher,

and yours is hard even to decipher.

Looking at you I wonder why,

The leaves rustle and birds fly.

Looking at you 'Now' I no longer wonder why,

My world revolves around you,

And that you are my sky.

There is no need of a moon,

And the world is futile.

You are my breathe, 

And you are my beat.

You are all I ever had.

I now no longer wonder that,

You are me...

Dedicated to "You".

Nuts...:)

SAVE IITs..

IIT-JEE has been renowned as one of the most prestigious entrance examination not only in the history of our great country, but also throughout the world. The IITs have consistently kept their standard high by staying apart from the other institutes and setting their own entrance examinations. Over the years, this has ensured that the quality of students entering the campus have been the best and the students passing out have shown impact not only in India but all over the world. Unfortunately, this may no longer be the same if the ideas proposed by the HRD minister, Mr. Kabil Sibal, are enforced. Instead of uplifting the level of our esteemed Universities, it may even go on to degrade them!

According to recent news the Minister of HRD has put forth a proposal which proposes a Common Entrance Test to seek admission in any Engineering College in the country which will consist of questions on Physics, Chemistry, Mathematics and an Aptitude Test. Moreover, this Aptitude Test will comprise of questions from all fields which the students study throughout their curriculum like History, Geography, General Knowledge etc.This added entity of Aptitude test will put more burden on the students as now they will have to study 4 subjects compared to the previous three. 

Apart from this, there is another glitch in the proposal. The HRD Minister has proposed that the marks scored by the students in their respective board examinations will also get due consideration while deciding the merit list of the test and that final admission to the colleges would be given by calculating an aggregate of the marks scored in the Common Entrance Test and the Boards.

The Government says that they will make the curriculum same throughout the country and that a Percentile system will be adopted to give equal opportunities to all students irrespective of the boards they belong to. But how could this be justified in a country where roughly 50 lakh students appear for Board examinations every year? Bringing about the same curriculum in our country, where we have 22 official languages being spoken in different parts, would hamper the regional diversity. 

While the idea of using results from the board examination is somewhat acceptable, it will take some time before the examination can match the standard of IITs. For one, the success in board examination in the current format relies more on mugging up of the concepts rather than on the practical applications of it -- which is what is tested by the JEE. Moreover, the papers are corrected by a diverse set of teachers which results in a great disparity in the marks achieved by students.

What will you do to check that, Minister of HRD? The center of board examination come in every nook and corner of the country. Once people are aware of the fact that IITs will give consideration to board marks, I tell you, everyone in the country would get the maximum possible marks. We can't deny the fact that there are places in the country where students could even open the books to write in the answer sheet and pass the examination. 

The changes that took place in the pattern in the year 2006 were somewhat reasonable and profound (Inclusion of reading comprehensions and Matrix Match type questions). But this time, the HRD has decided to take our IITs to a level which would never be uplifted by any reforms. 

Over the years IITs have created world class educational platforms. The faculty and alumni of IITs continues to make huge impact in all sectors of society, both in India and abroad. These are the people who passed one of the world's toughest tests to get admission to the IIT. The impact of IITians could be seen in each and every part of the world and society as a whole.

While addressing a discussion organized by the CII and Business Council on 14th Oct 2011 in Washington DC, the HRD minister said that that the country needs another 1000 Universities and 50,000 colleges in next 10 years. He also said that the US Universities should open their centers in India for R & D works.

Obviously once the level of our IITs will fall, these foreign universities would attract talent from the country. This will directly make the foreign universities prosper due to their talent pool which will comprise of the best brains in the country.

We can't let this happen to our country. we can't let this happen to the IITs. They were, they are and they will produce the best Engineers, not only in the country, but in the whole world. This pattern change would only bring about a transformation which would never prove to be fruitful to the nation. The test for these prestigious institutions holds the key for being the Numero Uno. Once the level falls, IITs fall. 

Bill Gates once said," If there is one thing that IIT has done -- it is the merit based approach and I won't temper it." 

So why temper an exam which is known for its 45 years old nature of remaining the same and still giving entry to those which are the best brains not only in the country but in the whole world.

May the HRD minister Gets Well Soon...

Save IITs.. Save the Nation.

Nuts..:)

I am Anna..:)

Its been days since I wrote last. The events that were taking place, the consequences that were then followed and the same busy life moving ahead at a pace from which even light can't win, were some of the contributing factors to the delay in postings.

I am being looked upon by some as a traitor to the nation. "Once you have some kind of a skill and you don't use it for the sake of mankind and nation, then what is its use? You are an unpatriotic person and you run away at a time when the country needs you the most."

While I was asking questions to myself and solving my student's doubts, the country ran at a very fast pace. I was wondering whether my writing could bring about a change in people's thinking and that what will happen even if I write 10-12 lines about the country's ongoing polity.

Well after a prolonged thought process, I have something to say finally. I finally have something to write and you can't call me a traitor anymore.

Much has been talked about the Jan Lokpal and I don't think there is a need to discuss about the bill. Corruption, we all know is one of the major causes of all the evil. The JLP couldn't be brought due to the reason called Corruption. And now that there is an uprising, the government is trying to put up its own Lokpal Bill which couldn't abolish even 5% of the corruption.

Thanks to Anna and his team for all the pains they took for us and the nation as a whole. The country is in need of more Annas, Kejriwals and Bedis. I salute their spirit and their passion for the nation. They really are true patriots. This August was full of Kranti.

Kranti took place 3 months back too, the kranti which my Mother began in our society. It was all due to a large container of waste which the Nagar Nigam placed adjacent to our home at the time of Diwali last year. On complaining that time, we were given false sympathies and dates which we came to know when we returned to Kota in June this year. Since the day we returned, my mother used to make a call to the authorities daily and request them to please clean up the place. They came sometimes and sometimes they didn't. The smell of the waste was unbearable and we were forced to keep all the doors and windows of our house shut. But still my mother had the same routine of making a call and requesting. I noticed that after about a month, the sweeper would himself some and clean up the mess on the road but that container was still there which half blocked the road and half choked our throats and nose. She used to go and ask the colony people to co-operate. But people used to turn a deaf ear as always. After 4-5 such requests to the colony people, my mother took charge of the situation all alone and went to the Mayor's office. She went there thrice but even the Mayor of our city couldn't do much but passed a message to someone else.

On watching all this happening everyday, I told her several times that nothing's gonna happen. We gave the matter in media and print but it just brought the Nagar Nigam people to our house to tell us that they had some upper pressure and even they couldn't do anything. They asked us to please don't let things get worse by involving media. But my mother threw them out and gave them an open challenge that within a week, the container will be removed and that too without any upper pressure.

She directly met the Home Minister of our state in his open meetings and told him about the problem with photographs and newspaper cuttings. He quickly sent a call to the Mayor and other authorities to clean up the mess asap and himself came and checked whether things were done properly or not.

We were the happiest people on this earth at that time when we saw the container being taken away in front of our eyes. My mother had some tears in her eyes and we knew how she had fought for it. Those were tears of happiness and victory. She made the Nigam look small in front of her efforts. I hugged her and touched her feet. A great lesson was learned and here it is shared.

Its not about greatness or anything else. Its about the right that we have in a democracy. Govt. of the people, by the people and for the people is still applicable only if we know how to apply it. Things change only if we bring about the change. Don't let things just go as they are. Take a pledge, make a beginning and see what happens. For me Anna came late and my Mommy came first. But still its Anna for the whole nation.

And as I say, India is the world's largest democracy, so what is there without you and me? No government, nothing.. So today lets take a pledge to fight against all odds we face in life at any level. Lets finish this Corruption thing once and for all and unite in this battle of freedom once again.
Check who you are. There is an Anna inside me, inside you and (I am not kidding) everyone one of you.
Lets all unite and say, "I  AM ANNA."
Jai Hind....:)

Nuts..:)

Bleeding Blue!!

I know I am really very late in posting on this very own space of  mine and I hope some people around this space missed me (Am I expecting a lot?).

Life had its ups and downs during this time and here I am back with a post. Though its not a post, but for sure you will love reading it. It is dedicated to all Indians and the God (Sachin). Its victory for us and lets celebrate this time. Party hard people and for those who are asking for it, come to me, I am willing to throw any number of parties on this occasion. I can no proudly say," I was alive when God reigned and India won the World Cup.

Here is the little verse I have made:

 Bleeding Blue!!

I am wounded, I am bruised,
Still I have no injuries,
But I have to undergo multiple surgeries.
Can someone please pass that bottle of glue,

Coz somehow I am Bleeding BLUE.

I had to put my car on mortgage,

I am all covered up with tricolored bandage,

Can someone please pass that bottle of glue,

Coz somehow I am Bleeding Blue.

I had an image of that cup,

But we always were the pups,

The God was asking for something tremendous,

Delivering every time it came to his shoulders.

It all began with Bangla's demolition,

Whom we taught what is our ambition.

Then came England's turn,

Which we couldn't return.

We lost one to the Africans,

And it made us the Hungrier Champions.

There were some amateurs after that,

Who said,"We will bowl, you bat."

Then came the match with an adrenaline pump,

And again, we made them run away taking Kangarooish Jumps.

And finally the pre-final came,

And I knew, whatever happens,

This game will bring all the fame.

And we made them hide in their bunkers,

Still having dreams of the balls hit for sixers.

Then came the day we were waiting for,

We had what we call our dream, His dream,

He was asking for nothing more,

And finally they made everyone scream.

I could sense that child in His smile,

I could see that tear in His glittering eyes,

I could feel the shiver in His body.

I could hear that loud cheer in His trembling voice's melody.

I cried, cried and cried,

Don't worry, I had, on my face, a huge smile.

We are ready to take anything on,

Whether it be a dry pitch,

Or there is presence of some dew.

Can someone now please pass that Bottle of Glue,

Coz I haven't stopped BLEEDING BLUE...:)

Dedicated to God and all the Indians..

Thank you everyone for reading. I hope it reaches the God sometime in my lifetime. I am optimistic. What!! Are you still reading? Go and celebrate people. Its Dussehra time..:)

Nuts...:)

The Grand Theft..

Being away from the blog hurts, really. I won't say that I was busy or I was doing some extraordinary work, but I would rather say that I was having some Mood Swings. I opened the blog and started scribbling and at the next moment I closed it down.

Unless the brain sits quiet, I can't vomit out my feelings completely. Exams, interviews and then selection, brings joy and a different feeling each time. Now that I am at peace (obviously I am alive) electricity is playing games with me. I will soon be publishing a guest Delhi Belly post by Pratik Gupta. Keep your fingers crossed for that as its gonna be an amazing journey from the day to the night and the place where it ends is just..

Life can't suck all the time. Its back and I am on a roll. Things can't go all the way turning towards us each time and when they turn is it the end? Another unanswered question...

Thinking on over a million things at a time hampers each and everything about which one is thinking. Choosing a single path out of the various ones laid in front is a very difficult job. I wonder what effects will these decisions cause?
 
What was once aspired is now conspired and I am leaving for Mysore finally. I don't know when will I be able to blog again, but I will keep updating you people with the happenings there. 

There are things coming to my heartfelt brain as the date is coming nearer. I feel like a theft is being performed very religiously and happily.

The theft of stealing fragrance from a flower,
The theft of stealing a son from his parents,
The theft of stealing a friend from his mates,
The theft of stealing a lover from his sweetheart.

Isn't this a kind of theft? The happening parties and grand adios are to celebrate the above thefts. Isn't this a kind of contradiction? But this is what life is all about. Life is Nuts...:)

Life is a grand theft and at some or the other point in life everyone of us is a thief, stealing what not ought to be stolen in any case. But what if our life itself is a Grand theft....:)

Nuts...:)


P.S. I need your wishes as I am going to play the third role (Electrical Engg, Teacher, Systems Engg) in my professional life.












 

What Have You Lost??

Time is running so fast that I can't even think of getting out time for all the 'important' things I thought I will do in my pseudo holidays. The seasons are changing so fast that even God is wondering what is wrong out here. Floods in the capital and the Common wealth games controversy is all one can watch on the idiot box.

Please stop ruining our country's reputation. Its enough already. Let the games finish peacefully and then I will let you know your(members of the organizing committee)  personal hygiene levels...:P

Teaching is a really wonderful experience and is a part of my wish list. It feels great when you can share your experiences and knowledge with novices and make them learn new concepts by unusual styles. The place where I used to sit and stare at the teacher, is now not mine. The roles have been interchanged. It feels great to hear Sir Nipun Mittal. 

Interacting and traveling with people from all backgrounds is fun. At times it teaches a lot. I have already written about the Puking Love incident. The experiences vary day by day.I usually travel by Tempos and Buses wherever I have to go and so I avoid moving around in the city for petty issues because it is really a tedious job. But when you gotta go, you gotta go. For one thing the tempos and buses have fascinated me and that's because I see new people every time I travel. And yes, GIRLS. I am so lucky that they travel by the public modes...:)

2 days back, while I was sitting and murmuring a song inside a tempo, I heard a voice which said,

"Bhaiya haath dena jara."
 (Lend me your help brother)

Without any hesitation, my hand was holding this crippled person's hand and pulling him up in the tempo. He sat down and returned the favor by the widest smile I have ever come across. I really felt great but at the same time I felt the pain of that person. With that smile he told me, "Dude you are lucky. Wish I could be like everyone. But I am sure, I won't let you down if you ask me for help anytime." Even though one of his legs were missing, he was having a complete form of the most valuable possession in the world, that is the Heart, which most of us have lost nowadays. What have you lost? What have I lost?

It was time for today's brunch and I was idling around all over our house with the fevi-stick glue stick in my hand (It acts as my mic while I am singing EMINEM or LP's songs). According to the Hindu calender, Shraads are going on and we do not buy new things or start a new work during this time. Everything is postponed to a date which is after this period is over. This is the time when we remember our ancestors and pray for their peace. I haven't talked about our landlords (Uncle - 76 years and Aunty - 60 years) ever in my blogs. They are just amazing personalities. They treat me like their grandson all the time and I am so lucky to have them around. Actually they have 2 sons, one died 3 years back and one is in USA. So it was today that they arranged prayers for their beloved son. I was sitting and reading today's newspaper and Aunty came to me asking me to get up at once. She then got hold of my hand and took me to the kitchen and served a plate for me without uttering a single word. When I asked why was she doing this, she started crying  and said, " You are also my son." I couldn't react to the situation and came back holding the plate, thinking about the pain that they were going through. She came and asked again and again for more and I couldn't even say NO. Her eyes filled with water and her voice filled with the a lot of vibrations. I was their son that time.

We gain a lot and we lose a lot more in this very small life.
But what if we lose the spirit of living? What if we lose the reason to live?
There are many who have lost the above two characters. There are many who are unaware why they are here. There are many who are living just because life doesn't quit.

Are we people one of them.
What have we lost? What have you lost? What have I lost?
Ask yourself and go make your life better. If not yours then make someone else's life better. Be happy and just think again,

WHAT HAVE YOU LOST???

Nuts...

P.S. Joy of giving fest is on and so please, make contributions in any form. The world needs you. Heel it your way. Ideas can be shared here....:)

Only If You Have Time..

Chanz tagged me long back and I am really sorry that I am taking it so late. I know you won't mind Chanz as you are such a sweetheart.

The work that you are about to witness is all out of shear boredom. Read it at your own risk.

10 How's:

1. How did you get one of your scars? – I was jumping from one cooler to the other at my Nanny's place and my leg slipped which made me fall at a cooler's corner. It looks like that Harry Potter scar.

2.  How did you celebrate your last birthday? - Celebrated it twice. In Delhi before 15 days (surprise) and after 15 days in Ajmer. It was the best day of my life really.

3.  How are you feeling at this moment? - Confused. 

4.  How did your night go last night? Saw Inglorious Bastards till 2 A.M. What do you expect now?

5. How did you do in high school? - With most of the chief responsibilities on my shoulders, I was the best student the school could ever had.

6. How did you get the shirt you’re wearing? - It's a Tee won by me in Mood Indigo 2007 at IIT Bombay after dancing with hands and legs tied to another partner (Beedi and Sajna Ji wari.. Ha! Awesome time..:)

7. How often do you see your best friend(s)? - Not much. But I meet them mostly when I go to Kota.

8. How much money did you spend last month? -  Didn't calculate, but I am sure that its much higher then the previous months.

9. How old do you want to be when you get married?- Don't Know. Everything is not upto me you see.

10. How old will you be at your next birthday? - 23

Nine what’s:

1. Your mothers name? Mummy..

2. What did you do last weekend? Crap..

3. What is the most important part of your life? Everything. 

4. What would you rather be doing? I would rather be watching a movie or listening to some of the world's greatest songs.

5. What did you last cry over? Don't ask me. Boys don't (usually) cry.

6. What always makes you feel better when you’re upset? Silence and the place where I love to go alone.

7. What’s the most important thing you look for in a significant other? Frequency match..

8. What are you worried about? I don't know. But there is something.

9. What did you have for breakfast? Nothing.

Eight you’s:

1. Have you ever liked someone who had a girlfriend/boyfriend? Yeah!! It has happened countless times.

2. Have you ever had your heartbroken? Yes

3. Have you ever been out of the country? No (If Andamans is considered a foreign destination then Yes..:)

4. Have you ever done something outrageously dumb? Me and dumb. Are u kidding..:P

5. Have you ever been back stabbed by a friend? Yes

6. Have you ever had sex on the beach? NO!! Wish....

7. Have you ever dated someone younger than you? Yes..!! 

8. Have you ever read an entire book in one day? May be 6-7.

Seven who’s:

1. Who was the last person you saw? As in? Dating or what?

2. Who was the last person you texted? A member of AIESEC.

3. Who was the last person you hung out with? I had a Duo with me which always rocks.

4. Who was the last person to call you? Her.

5. Who did you last hug? My father. It was his birthday 2 days back.

6. Who is the last person who texted you?The same as above.

7. Who was the last person you said “I love you” to? You think I am telling that to you...

Six where’s:

1. Where does your best friend(s) live? - Kota and Ajmer.

2. Where did you last go? AIESEC meeting.

3. Where did you last hang out? Nareli, Temple.

4. Where do you go to school? Kota

5. Where is your favorite place to be? I am sitting there right now.

6. Where did you sleep last night? Bathroom. WTF!! Obviously on my bed.

Five do’s:

1. Do you think anyone likes you? Do you want me to believe that nobody does. Yes, there are many.

2. Do you ever wish you were someone else? Yeah

3. Do you know the muffin man? No. How does it matter?

4. Does the future scare you? Yeah..Sometimes…

5. Do your parents know about your blog? Yeah…they know that I write but I refrain from sharing the url...

Four why’s:

1. Why are you best friends with your best friend? Because it is the best I could do with the best person I have met in my best years.

2. Why did you get into Blogging? Someone told me to. Thank You. (Don't know what my readers would say to this)

3. Why did your parents give you the name you have? Don't know. Lemme ask. Papa.....

4. Why are you doing this survey? I am getting bored. Really bored.

Three if’s:

1. If you could have one super power what would it be? Power to control the happenings of the world. Power to be what I want me to be.

2. If you could go back in time and change one thing, would you? I'd rather not disturb anything that happened in the past. Its only because of what happened that I am what I am. 

3. If you were stranded on a deserted island and could bring 1 thing, what would you bring? Well, some pills that would help me survive so that I could get the hell out of there. Cast Away....:)

Two would-you-ever’s:

1. Would you ever get back together with any of your ex’s if they asked you? Never. Lemme ask, who would??

2. Would you ever shave your head to save someone you love? Yes, off course.

One last question:

1. Are you happy with your life right now? No.

 I am tagging Suppy Di, Pratik Bhaiya, Madhu, Shivani, Rohini, Bindu, Deepa, RJ Saavi and everyone who would like to take up the tag.

Phewwwwwww. It really took a toll of me. I don't know what will you people face. Till then Ciao..!

 Nuts...:)

P.S. Its my Brother's birthday. Happy birthday bhaiya!! You mean more than anybody else to me in this world...:)